( Beep )
Laura ?
( Laura ) Yeah ?
Could... Would you Do me a favor ?
Could you come in Here for a minute ?
I just, i need to talk to You about something.
About what ?
Well, it's of a... It's complicated,
And it's personal,
And if you can just come in Here for a minute,
That would be great.
Laura ?
Yeah ?
Complicated and personal ?
Yeah.
So if you could Come in here--
Hold on, i'm looking through My job description.
I'm looking For those keywords.
Complicated... Personal...
Well, this is not-- Hm.
It's my Insecurity, doc.
That's what it is.
I can't handle any Kind of rejection.
Well, that's everybody, ray.
That's-- everybody's Afraid of rejection.
I don't even like to Buy a can of soda anymore,
'Cause i get too upset when It won't accept my dollar.
I don't know if you've Ever been turned down
By a soda machine.
I had a perfectly Flat dollar the other day.
I checked the corners-- It was ready.
It was soda-ready.
And you know what Really annoys me ?
It teases you, The machine.
It'll take it a little,
And you get psyched At that moment.
Sure.
Y'know, as the dollar's Going in, you're like,
"Hey, i've been Approved for soda.
Ha-ha, i got a can Of soda !"
"No soda, loser !"
"Oh, i promised My friends !"
Hey, ben, this is The number i'm gonna be at.
If-- y'know, just in the case Of an emergency.
Oh, you're Heading out ? Yeah.
Where are you going ?
I'm going to that new Italian place on the roof.
It's one of these Rotating restaurants.
That sounds fun.
Remember we went to That place in cleveland
That was supposed to rotate,
But it was just the help was Sort of revolving around us,
Creating an illusion ?
Yeah, that was nauseating.
Yeah.
So you're going out To eat ?
Yes, and this is Our first actual date.
That's great.
I'm happy for you.
You really should, You should go out
With denise tonight.
Yeah, she is one Fine-looking hygienist.
Wow.
I'm usually not so optimistic About these dates,
But we really hit it off.
I'd think you'd be A little bit nervous.
You haven't been with a Woman in a long time.
Well, it's like Riding a bike.
Is it really ?
Yep. Oh.
I just hope i don't get my Pants caught in the chain,
If you know What i'm saying ?
You going out, By the way ?
You have plans ?
No, no, not really.
I'm gonna Stay in tonight.
Yeah ?
Yeah, i'm gonna hang out.
I got some stuff To do around--
Jeez, saturday night.
Don't you-- isn't there-- What about, um--
Well, i mean, i have plans.
I just-- you know, they're not That complicated.
There's some plans, Though, that i do have, dad.
Like what ?
You know, i'm gonna Take a shower,
And i'm gonna clean up,
And i'm gonna, you know, Lie down on my bed
And just feel clean.
I don't think this Is healthy, ben.
I think that there's Something missing here.
It's saturday night--
I'm gonna shave My body bare.
That's what i'm gonna do.
Don't shave Yourself again, ben.
You're gonna chafe.
Dad, i gotta, The hair's dirty.
Hair is dirty.
I'm gonna be nice And smooth and clean.
I want you to get Counseling, ben.
Everybody out.
You know, i was looking at
Our wedding album Again the other day.
So interesting.
Every picture Of my wife is angelic,
Almost beatific, you know.
The glow and the gown, And just this inner glow.
And every shot of me, I'm just...
Loaded, for one thing.
It's just-- And it's so obvious.
It's awful.
You know, you have your Arm around
One of your pinhead friends,
And the other hand-- There's a big glass in it
That might as well say Whiskey on the glass.
It's just three Inches of brown liquid.
Every time-- every picture-- I mean, you know how it is.
You go to a wedding,
You think you look Like cary grant.
Then you see the pictures, You look like manson in a tux.
You just look awful.
Every picture Of me--
My mom was Looking at it--
She'd go, "oh, larry !"
Turn the page-- "Oh, larry !"
Why do women, by the way--
Why do they insist On asking advice
When they're Planning a wedding ?
Why do they ask Us advice ?
They know we can't help.
Why ? Yeah.
What is it, a cruel joke ?
Why do they say, "What, do you like
The flowers that go this Way or that way ?"
"Uhh... Here's a bracelet."
They know that's what It's gonna wind up being,
So why do they Ask us ?
We can't tell.
"You want the plate with The big gold ring around it ?"
You know, they want your Participation
In every aspect Of their lives.
That's what marriage is.
It's sharing-- It's a shared adventure.
We can't even See these things.
I don't think they Understand that.
That when-- if they Hold up a flower, a plate,
A crystal glass, we can't Even see anymore.
All we see is the way The terminator does,
With that red Scratchy screen
And the gray shapes moving Around on it.
We just go with The computer printout--
"Trrrrrrt, tell her You love it."
"Honey, i love it.
"I'll tell you That right now.
I just love it."
What do you mean ?
Well, he doesn't have The social life
Of a 24-year-old male.
When i was That age--
And i think you'll bear me Out on this, stanley--
We are carnivorous At that age for women.
Ugh.
A meat-eater ?
Yes. Uh-huh.
No, it's true.
That's what Young men do,
Is they want sex, And they want it bad.
So you don't think he's got, Like, the drive going ?
I think that he is... He's Stalled in neutral, you know.
Did he ever have A girlfriend ?
Not really A girlfriend.
He had a pen pal.
Hm.
You know, once in a while He'll rub up against grace,
The cleaning woman,
In a way that makes Both of us uncomfortable.
Hm.
( Giggling )
Sometimes i wonder if i have Failed him in some way,
That i haven't filled him With the information he needs
To pursue the opposite sex.
Like what ?
Like, what they Look like ?
No, he can spot one In a crowd.
Yeah.
But, you know, Just about courtship
And about sex and about Dating, and what...
Romance-- all the things.
How did you learn, stanley, About... About sex ?
About sex ? Yeah.
Mostly i gleaned it.
Yeah. Yeah.
Julie, what about you ?
I know it's different For a woman.
Yeah.
But what about... How did You learn about it ?
Well, i came home From school one day.
Mm-hmm.
I wanna hear this.
I wanna hear it twice.
My mother had left this Pamphlet on my night table.
Is that true ?
Do remember what It was called ?
On becoming...
Oh, on becoming A woman.
My sister had that.
And it talks About your cycle.
What about getting that Book for him ?
There must be A whole series.
On becoming a woman, On becoming a man...
I gave him a book When he was about eight
Called "everybody's Got a tushy."
But i don't know If that did the trick.
You know what i mean ?
Who wrote that ?
That was written by...
Nelson mandela Wrote that in prison.
( Slurping )
How did your date go, By the way ?
We had a wonderful dinner,
Some very exciting Conversation.
We think alike About a lot of things.
She's a lot Younger than you.
She's a lot younger Than me, but still--
Is that comfortable ?
That you date somebody Half your age ?
It's very comfortable.
You know What i find ?
Even though i can't Perform the way
I did when i was younger--
Oh, dad.
Sexually, i mean. Yeah.
I still am uncomfortable Taking money.
All right, so...
You know, my-- another One of my problems is
When i meet a woman who's Just an acquaintance,
I never know what The proper hello is anymore.
Is it a handshake ?
Or is it that Little cheek kiss ?
You know ?
I was at a party The other night,
And i met the woman, and what You have to do is, like--
You don't wanna Assume a cheek kiss,
So you kind of lean In a little.
You're like, "oh, hi !"
And you just... Mmm, mmm, mmm.
And you have To be very careful,
'Cause if you lean too far, You're committed then.
You have to go in !
And she turns away, And you've gotta
Whisper something to her.
"The potato chips Are stale.
Stay away from them."
( Woman ) What city, please ?
Yeah, in santa fe.
I'm trying to look up a number For an old girlfriend of mine.
Her name's karen duris.
Can you spell The last name, sir ?
You know, she probably Won't even remember me.
Maybe this isn't Gonna work out.
Could you spell The last name for me, sir ?
The point was is that The relationship
Didn't go that well anyway,
And i guess I was sitting here,
And i was a little, Like, bored,
And maybe upset a little bit, 'Cause i'm lonely.
Could you spell The last name for me, sir ?
Yeah, d-u-r-i-s.
Duris.
I'll check that For you, sir.
There's probably Not a chance.
She's probably married now.
You know, there's always Something.
I love coffee.
I'm sorry, sir.
Checking under The spelling--
"D" like dog, "u" Like umbrella, "r" like robert,
"I" like iris, "S" like sam--
There is no listing for A karen duris
In the city of santa fe.
Uh, look up This one.
Carmela lavoi.
Lavoi.
Could you spell The last name--
I don't know how That's spelled.
I don't know.
Lavoi.
L-a-v something ?
I'll check that For you, sir--
Probably an O-i, o-i.
She's french.
She used to Eat chapstick.
That was the weird thing About her.
She's very Jealous, yeah.
I'm not saying i'm not.
I mean, men get Jealous, but...
Women seem to take it To another level.
I'll never forget-- one day My wife came home from work
And was mad at me Because there was
A pretty woman on her bus
She thought i would like, had I been on the bus with her.
I wasn't even-- I wasn't there.
"Oh, you son of a--
"You would have loved her, You bastard !
"We have a baby !
You're a father !"
Well, what is your theory About women, larry ?
No matter what we do, No matter what we say,
I have a feeling women Always look at us,
Thinking, "idiot."
"Yes, i'll have another Glass of wine, you monkey.
"Maybe it'll help me listen To your stupid stories.
"God.
Who dressed you ?"
My clothes-- i mean, It's sad, really, that--
To women, we're like Big dogs that talk.
That's the beginning And the end
Of the whole Deal right there.
I think that men and women
Have different perspectives About each other,
And i think that's healthy.
I think that's Interesting.
Women think they know, By the way,
Which always Astonishes me.
Women will always say,
"Hey, we look at Guys sexually too."
Well, they do, they do.
Women have no idea.
Oh.
They have no clue whatsoever.
It's like the difference Between shooting a bullet
And throwing it.
If women had any idea, Even for a second,
Of how we really Looked at them,
They would never Stop slapping us.
( Dr. Katz ) Hey, ben ?
Ben ?
Over here-- Your father.
Yeah, have fun, dad.
Yeah, listen, i won't be back Until 12:30, maybe even later.
Huh ?
Just don't wait up for me, Is all i'm saying.
I probably won't Wait up for you, dad.
Oh, okay.
As long as you Don't wait up.
You don't have any-- do you Have any plans for tonight ?
I won't wait up, thanks.
No, ben, do you Have any plans ?
Plans is fine.
Do you have any plans ?
No, i have plans.
But, you know, they don't Really involve other people.
I'm gonna be here By myself.
Just some stuff i Gotta do around the house.
Nothing really Pressing, though.
Have fun, dad.
...It's okay not to Have any plans.
All right, dad !
I was just wondering.
Yeah, that's great.
I got plans, You big ass( blank ).
Whoopsie doodle doo, My friend !
You need a Time out, son.
Hi.
How are you ?
Hi... Laura.
Hi.
How you doing ? Fine.
Good, good.
Me too.
Everything's well.
Everything is In order.
Mm-hmm.
So how are You doing ?
You look well.
You're sitting down. Yeah.
You know, i came by To tell my dad i got a...
I got a new idea For a job.
Great.
You know how i like To work at home.
I don't like to Think about that.
Today i was driving behind This truck--
I thought this was amusing--
It had one of those "how's My driving ?" Stickers,
And it said, "How's my driving ?
"If you have any complaints Or compliments,
Call the company."
Which-- complaints, i can Understand, but compliments ?
Who does that ?
Whose life is That boring ?
I thought i had A sad life.
Tell me, who's on The phone going,
"Yeah, listen, I saw truck number 42.
"He backed into that Loading dock...
"He's a genius, that man.
"He did a u-turn, And i wept.
Can i get on The mailing list for him ?"
There's a new technique in Farming called hydroponic.
You know, with technology And stuff,
Things are different now.
You don't work With soil anymore.
It's all done in tubes.
Tubes ? Tubes, yeah.
Yeah, that suits you.
Okay.
Yeah, so you got a tube, And then you put water in it,
And you grow some lettuce Out of it,
And then you Sell it at the...
Down at the open market.
If there is one.
I gotta go Check on that.
It is my mother's-- partly my Mother's fault, actually.
She's quite A neurotic woman.
Mm-hmm.
She's the italian-- The typical italian
Plastic furniture You can't sit on
And towels you Can never touch
And the china no one's Ever gonna use.
Everything in My mother's house
Was for a special occasion That hasn't happened yet.
She's waiting.
My mother thinks The pope
Might show up For dinner one night.
Or chachi.
Any prominent italian.
Mmm.
It's a big selling point,
Because the lettuce is Shaped like creatures,
And it's cute !
Here, let me leave you With my business cards.
I made 50 of them.
Here, you can Have 40.
And, you know, Pass those around,
'Cause it's-- there's--
What it says-- y'know, Ben katz, hydroponic farming.
Because it's fun.
I just made my first Huge married mistake,
And i'd like to tell You about it.
Yeah ?
Every day, last year--
Every single day from Thanksgiving
To new year's day,
What with all the office Parties and holiday meals,
Every single day, my wife Says to me,
"Oh, i'm getting so fat !"
Now, i'm not That stupid.
Even i know i just walked Into a minefield.
If i don't have to, I'm not going in.
I'm gonna try And go around it.
So what i did say was what Husbands have been saying
Since adam and eve:
"Honey, you're as beautiful as You were the day i met you."
You know what happens when The cops interrogate a guy
For 30 hours, but he Won't confess ?
The cops keep saying,
"Let's just go over it One more time."
And eventually The guy'll slip.
"Okay, i told you-- i went to The movie."
"I thought you Said the ball game !"
"Uh, it was a movie about A ball game !"
Bang-- they got him.
Well, that's What happened to me.
One new year's day, We're flying home,
And i had a few drinks,
And she said, "let's just go Over it one more time.
Oh, i'm getting so fat."
And i said, "Oh, don't worry about it.
We'll both lose weight In the new year."
And she said, "you have The right to remain silent."
( Laura ) Yeah ?
I would like to move from The system you've been using
To a computerized system,
And it would Mean training you
On the use of the computer And the software,
Because the system That you developed
For filing our patients Doesn't seem to work.
It's just not that simple.
I appreciate The work you've done,
But not everybody is Either "nutty as,"
"Nuttier than,"
Or "not as nutty as A fruitcake."
So we need to--
It's been working Fine for me.
I'm the one that Has to pull the files.
I know, but what's Happening now is that
The insurance people are Turning down--
Are you getting Ready to replace me ?
Uh... No, no.
Oh, so anyway, dad, i got a Date lined up wednesday night.
Well, that's good news, ben.
You remember Penelope spiro ?
Yes.
Yeah, she was the one Who had the bike accident.
Oh, they still--
I don't think they determined That was an accident.
Penelope was in The fourth grade with you.
Yeah, yeah.
When was the last time You saw her ?
The fourth grade, The fourth grade.
Isn't that what i said ?
Yeah, i'm saying That's the last--
Oh, that was the last Time you saw her.
Right, right.
Well, you should expect Some changes, my friend.
Yeah, well, I'm looking forward
To seeing what happened.
Hey, that's great.
Yeah, yeah.
That makes me feel good.
I was-- i have to confess, I've been a little concerned
About your Social life, but--
Where are you guys going ?
You know, we'll probably Take a bike ride.
Oh, dad, I'm kidding.
We won't do that, Of course not.
We will, uh, you know, Go out maybe to
The movies or something.
Can i say Two words to you ?
Uh, yeah.
Safe sex. Safe sex, yeah.
Safe sex is no joke, My friend.
It's real. Yes, yes.
One time-- you could Get pregnant.
Ben... Yeah ?
If i've been acting a Little weird, i apologize.
I just was overwhelmed by this Wave of guilt and remorse
That maybe in some way i Had left a void in your life.
You know, that i-- you know,
I feel like ever since Your mother left,
That i've been Overcompensating,
You know, trying to be both Father and son to you.
No, that's not right.
Trying to be both-- Father and mother.
Father and mother To you, right.
Well, i think, you know, It works both ways.
In a way, i've tried to Be wife and son to you.
And, uh, that's confusing.
How about a truce, You know ?
How about I'm your father--
Let's just pick a role.
I'll be wife, You be son.
You always get To be the wife.
All right, well, Let's try it for a week,
And then we'll Switch it up.
Yeah, she would Overfeed everyone.
I used to tell my friends When they came over--
"Look, when you're Done with the meal,
"My mother's gonna Try to give you more.
"All right, be careful, Be very careful.
"Don't tell her You want a little more,
"'Cause she'll give You a lot.
"Tell her you're Not even hungry.
"Boof-- you'll get A little bit more.
'And if you don't Want any more, shoot her.
"Shoot the woman.
Don't wait."
"None for me."
"Oh, you take A little !"
"I don't think So, mrs. Romano.
"Put it back, put it back In the bowl.
"Now hand the spoon To ray, nice and easy !
Get your hand-- she's got a Cannoli in her apron !"
Shoot her.
Shoot her And land one.
Don't graze her.
That'll piss her off.
She'll take a bullet And keep coming.
"Oh, i warmed it up !"
And she won't Go down.
She'll flip it to your aunt.
There's always a fat aunt Backing her up somewhere.
"Go get him, He's a runner !"
* Like planet of the Fat aunts in my house.
Whoops, you know What that means.
It means our Time is just about up.
( Phone ringing )
( Laura ) Dr. Katz's office.
Hey, laura, What's going on ?
Please hold.
Hey, laura, could you pick up The phone, please ?
Or the intercom ?
( Dial tone )
( Sighing )
( Dialing )
Hello ?
Dr. Katz's office.
Hey, laura, this is crazy.
I can't-- the intercom Is dead--
Please hold.
Please do not--
Dr. Katz ?
Yes ?
Dr. Katz ?
Look, what's going on here ?
'Cause i can't get to You on the intercom.
Can you try--
Hold on, let me Check it out.
( Beep )
Laura, can you Hear me ?
Can you hear me, laura ?